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The Importance of Meeting your Wedding DJ

May 4th, 2010

Unless you’ve made other arrangements, the DJ at your Wedding will do much more than play music. The DJ will be the Face of your wedding. He will make all introductions and announcements, and will coordinate with your other vendors so you don’t have to. He will be the manager of the reception.  Since he serves such an important role, it is incredibly important that you take the time to meet with him, and that he offers that time to you.

I’m not talking about just a phone call. While at least a phone call should be mandatory for a DJ, it is relatively impersonal. Your DJ should have a personal stake in your wedding reception. He should know your faces, and you should know his. You should be able to judge his confidence level, because this will give you an idea of how good of a manger he is going to be for you.

Most of all, though, simply the act of meeting gives everyone a better feeling about the event. It gives you more confidence to look your DJ in the eyes and tell him what kind of night you’re looking for, and for him to look back at you, completely confident that he can deliver. It’s also a very positive experience for a Bride who is very nervous about her Wedding. I can’t tell you how many times a previously nervous Bride has walked out of my office with a sigh of relief, knowing that there is so much less to worry about.

Occasionally our clients have a Wedding planner, which is great. A wedding planner can greatly reduce the stress of organizing a Wedding. That said, you still should meet with your DJ. Yes, the Planner will be putting your timeline together and coordinating with the other vendors, but she will not be introducing people or making announcements. She isn’t the face, though she is very important. The best planners I work with always help me do my job better… they don’t tell me how to do my job.

So get to know your DJ. Friend him on Facebook and Twitter, if he’s on them. Send him pictures of you. Tell him a little about yourself. It will all lead to a better reception for you, and him!

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6 Guidelines for choosing Reception Dance Music

April 29th, 2010

Image Courtesy of Mirage Photo

Weddings generally host a wide variety of people. Many different age groups come together, and the DJ and/or Band must play music that will be appealing to all, or most, for most of the evening.

DJs are very good at this (that’s why we do what we do); however, we often have clients who want varying levels of input into the musical selection for the evening. I always encourage this, because it adds a level of personalization that a DJ can’t provide just playing off-the-cuff. That said, unless the client is a DJ themselves, too  much control over the playlist can be a very bad thing.

If you do want to have some input on some, or all, of your playlist, here are some suggestions:

  1. Pick songs people can dance to: Hey, I love 90′s alternative. Pearl Jam’s “Alive” is a great track. Unfortunately, it isn’t what you would call “danceable.” Stick to stuff with a steady, fun beat, and people will be more likely to dance.
  2. Pick songs people will dance to: For the most part, your guests will tend to dance to very popular tracks. True, you may have a group of friends who will dance to O.A.R.’s “Crazy Game of Poker,” but if you’re playing relatively obscure tracks all night that most of your guests don’t know, they won’t dance. People generally dance to what they know.
  3. Make a “Do Not Play” list: There are some DJs who will default to certain songs unless told otherwise. These songs include popular line/group dances (ie, the Chicken/Duck dance, electric slide, Y.M.C.A…. by the way, all of these songs are on my own personal Do Not Play list, unless the client specifically OKs them), as well as certain popular songs like “Celebration”, “We Are Family”, and “Love Shack.” All of these are popular at weddings, and they are also at the top of many “Do not play” lists. It helps the DJ a great deal to know what you really don’t want to hear.
  4. Give the DJ some leeway: If you’ve picked a quality DJ, then he will know what works, and how to maintain a good flow throughout the evening while incorporating your requests into his mix. If you have a very rigid playlist or genre requirements, the DJ is kind of boxed in to your choices, and if those choices aren’t working, you’ve given him no outs.
  5. Don’t slow it down too much: Slow songs are going to get played, and people will definitely dance to them, but there is such a thing as slowing it down too much. I generally play about 5 slow songs per reception, sometimes maybe another 1 or 2, depending on the mood and age of the crowd. Remember, it’s nice to have a sweet, romantic slow dance, but if you overdo it, you will kill the energy of the dance floor.
  6. Know your priorities: Not all people are looking for a lot of dancing at their reception. I once played a reception where my clients specifically said that I can play traditional wedding dance music for 1 hour, but after that they wanted punk rock for the rest of the night, regardless of what anyone else asked for. No requests (other than punk) were to be taken. They knew no one would dance, but dancing was not their priority. I obliged. People were very angry with me (the FOG actually threatened my life, though I didn’t take it all that seriously), but I made them aware that this was the agenda planned by my clients. My clients were extremely pleased with me, and thanked me profusely. The point is that you need to decide if you want people to dance or not. You also need to realize that just because you would dance to a song, that doesn’t mean everyone else will do so. If dancing is a priority, consider playing some of the more obscure stuff during dinner or cocktail hour. If not, Indie it up.

The point of a personalized play list is to make the reception your own, not a cookie cutter program that you’ve heard at every wedding you’ve ever attended. If you have a DJ you trust, then work with him (or her) to figure out what kind of mood you want. If your DJ is good, they should have 5 songs to play to match each 1 song you request.

If you design a play list that you want the DJ to stick to rigidly, just understand that you are taking on the responsibility of entertaining your guests. While the DJ should try to play it in an order that makes sense, ultimately you have decided on the course of music, so be sure that you are going to be happy with it, no matter what.

Special thanks to Mirage Photo for the above images!


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Wedding DJ Pricing

July 2nd, 2009

“So, how much do you cost?”

This is a question I receive fairly often from prospective clients. Its a reasonable question – especially if its something asked towards the end of a conversation regarding any service. However, if this is the first thing someone asks me, either at a bridal show, or over the phone … I honestly cant help but cringe (at least on the inside). Something about this is wrong.

Yes – Our economy may not be so great. People are looking to cut costs on everything from groceries to gas; but if this is your wedding – isn’t the quality of the service at least something you would want to know a little about? I might even be as brave to suggest that the quality of service is more important than the price. But then again … I work for a DJ company.

I do think the reason why this question is so prominent in our industry is two-fold: For one, some clients might have the idea that all DJ services are the same (hint: they’re not). An old saying goes;“You can compare apples to apples, but you can’t compare a chair to a couch.”

Actually,  I made that statement up.  However, it easily illustrates the point that I’m driving at: Not all DJs are the same. There are so many different things to take into account when looking at a prospective DJ service for your wedding (and I am specifically speaking about weddings here – a DJ for your birthday party is another matter).

Just as in comparing furniture, style is a huge difference between today’s DJ services. One popular style involves an entertainment mindset which focuses on bringing props, doing group dances, wearing wigs, and other things of that sort in addition to playing dance music. When I have a client looking for this type of style, I normally will give them a few companies in St Louis that provide this and send them on their way. This is not the style of service we offer.

Other DJ companies, like Millennium Music, specialize in a more contemporary style and that is what I will jump into briefly below:

With a contemporary style, you’re getting something very different. With this style, the DJ is focused on acting as a host for your reception, and not necessarily as the entertainer. This style means that the bride and groom are the center of the attention – not the DJ. The DJ sees it as his/her role to merely facilitate the evening to the newlywed couple’s liking. This type of DJ’s job involves being on the microphone only for necessary announcements: Bridal party introductions, coordinating between toasts, announcing the cake cutting, announcing the garter/bouquet toss to name a few.

Another responsibility found with a contemporary DJ is to coordinate with all of your vendors at the reception to ensure everyone is on the same page, and constantly letting your guests know whats happening next at all times. After all of this, the DJ also happens to play a seamless flow of music later in the evening (without announcing in a “radio voice” what song has just been played). “Beat-mixing” is a popular phrase heard around our office and it expresses a seamless transition between songs to ensure the energy stays on the dance floor; reducing the pauses normally heard between songs, which is often a cue for guests to leave the dance floor.

The other reason I think the “price question” comes up as the first thing uttered after I say “hello” is that our prospective clients just don’t know what else there is to ask. For most of our clients, this is the first time they’ve actually hired or considered hiring a DJ so they feel this is the question to be asked. Just so you know, there are other important ones to ask (even before the price question). I’ll help our newly engaged couples out there with a list below of some important questions to ask when comparing DJ services (or chairs to couches…brilliant).

Good Questions to Ask A Potential DJ Company

1. In what type of venue’s do you normally perform? On the face of it, this may not seem important, but can give you a good idea of the caliber of DJ you are inquiring about. If they play a lot of bar gigs, then weddings are not their specialty. If, on the other hand, they end up at a lot of the most expensive places in town – You’ve found a good DJ company

2. Can I meet with my DJ after booking? If you can’t – consider that “red flag” number 1.

3. Can I see one of your DJs at a wedding? If the company gives you any answer other than “yes” upon asking this question – you can consider that “red flag” no. 2 and they are hiding something. I’ve heard very clever excuses to this question which usually fall along the lines of “our client’s confidentiality is important” and just so you know – this is a cover-up and this company knows they provide a bad service. Any bride that has already booked a DJ knows what its like when searching for one, and will understand your desire to actually see what you are getting (I’ve only had one bride that wasn’t comfortable with someone stopping by in the several years that I’ve been in this business, and the request above is one that we grant quite often).

4. Any hidden costs? Seems a good question to ask, no? Some DJs charge travel fees, setup fees, taxes … etc. which you may not know about right away.

5. What does your package include? You want to find out things such as how many hours come with the package, if  lighting is included (LED lighting tends to have a classier look), is there a wireless microphone for toasts, do they include an adequate sound system (high-end speakers, amplifier, and mixing board are definite must-haves).

6. Will the DJ take breaks? Hopefully the answer will be “no”…

A few other things to consider:

Check out the Better Business Bureau (https://www.bbb.org/). If the company has lots of complaints – Well … you know what to do.

Ask your vendors. These are the people that see day-to-day the type of people that are out there, and they probably have some decent suggestions for you. I will say that the one exclusion to this rule is a “house DJ” or “preferred DJ” associated with some venues (but not all venues). Usually these “preferred” vendors are people that cut a check to the venue in response to the booking, or have paid to be placed on the “preferred vendors” list. If your venue has one of these lists, just ask and they’ll be honest about the reasons why those particular vendors are preferred.

And with that, I leave you with a hearty congratulations on your upcoming wedding! Feel free to provide your thoughts on this long (sorry), but extremely important post.

Ben Kelley – Millennium Music

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Event Planning: The Secret to a Smooth-Flowing and Successful Event

May 13th, 2009

“DJ AJ” (as he’s referred to on KMOV 4) is off today, so I thought I’d fill in with a little food for thought when it comes to planning your big event.

As with any wedding or other formal event, you will obviously have hired several vendors – each assigned specific roles (photography, entertainment, decor, flowers, transportation … etc) pertaining to your event. It goes without saying that most brides and grooms want their reception to run smoothly with as least hiccups as possible. Lucky for you, this is a relatively easy thing to accomplish … as long as you know the secret.

What is the secret to ensuring my event runs smoothly, you ask? Well I’m glad you did, because I’m prepared to share it with you:

The secret to having a smooth-flowing successful event is constant and clear communication.

Simple huh? Yes it is. Keep this in mind when selecting your vendors for your big day. Not only do you want qualified, professional workers, capable of doing their job (and doing it well). It also cannot be emphasized enough the importance of selecting vendors that are personable – vendors that have a knack for working as a team with all of the professionals you have hired, to ensure a smooth-flowing evening for all.

One of the reasons attributing to our company’s success in the wedding market, is not only from our expertise in playing the role of  “event planner” at a reception (and thus realizing how important constant communication between vendors really is), but also results from our “family tree” of production companies:

Millennium Music – DJ Entertainment

Millennium Video – Wedding Videography

Millennium Live – Band Entertainment Booking

Millennium Design – Event Lighting and Decor

Providing all four of these services under the same roof provides a constant flow of clear and concise communication between our staff of vendors, thus guaranteeing a smooth and successful event for you.

That’s all – that’s the sales pitch. Even if you don’t book Millennium for your event, which is perfectly fine, I’ve seen this small bit of advice over-looked and under-recognized on too many occasions. Its definitely some good food for thought and worth sharing to all of the love-birds out there currently planning their big day, as well as with all of the wedding professionals providing services for someone’s  big day.

Happy Wednesday.

- Ben Kelley

P.S. I caught some slack from Jason, one of our DJ’s about my spelling of “smooth-flowing” in the title of this post. According to him, it should read “smoothly-flowing” as “smoothly” is an adverb. I disagree. Is he right?

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